This might be a bit of a controversial post, but certain people on social media are stating the fact that they can work full time isn’t because they are less ill. Which makes those of us who are unable to work at all or full-time feel shit about ourselves. What magical just push-through skill do we not have? I was the queen of just pushing through. Being reliant on the benefits system is my biggest fear, and I think it ultimately put me where I am now.
Relient on benefits.
I get the “Oh I have to work out of necessity I can’t afford a life on benefits.” But can anyone? The basic UC payment for an under 25 is £263 or something like that. It’s a bit more if you are over 25. I’ve just turned 25 so I am hoping I’ll benefit from the extra. You then get housing benefit based on the LHA rate. If you are under 35 and not on PIP this is a shared room rate. Where I live the rate is around £304. You cannot find somewhere to rent for £304 here. It’s a cheap area of the country but not THAT cheap.
So I ask again. Can anyone afford life on benefits? With a backlog of up to 18 months for work capability assessments, many people have to appeal PIP.
I get that the “We’re just stronger” “We’re not less ill” thing was based on comments made by other people on social media.
But consider this. Maybe you aren’t less ill, but you have better management and support in place. A lot of people I see able to work full time are on strong pain medication. The pain medication I can’t take the every day because I have chronic migraine and medication overuse headache is a thing and yes potentially having medication overuse threatens your access to appropriate treatment on the NHS. Even for people without conflicting medical condition dilemmas, tramadol in quantities to take daily is hard to access from a GP. Especially if you are young. A lot of us don’t have the relief that may allow us to work full time, or at least work more hours. Access to better management and treatment is a real thing, especially with the NHS being such a postcode lottery. I think instead of trying to make those of us who can’t work feel bad, people who can need to admit that maybe they do have better access to treatment than some of us can obtain.
That doesn’t mean that they are less sick. It just means that symptoms are better controlled.
We also need to realise that maybe you are less ill if you can work full time, or have a job with all the accommodations in the world. That doesn’t mean your illness isn’t valid, it just means a lot of chronic conditions are spectrum disorders. Some of us experience it worse than others.
We do just generally need to stop the nastiness on both sides. Those of us who can’t work aren’t all privileged enough to be able to actually afford it. I know I’m not. And those of us who can are still valid in having chronic illness.